Can someone help me I’m not looking for answers just on how to solve and do this.

This is by far my favorite question on this app, but anyway just call them out on it. Tell them that if there's a problem, it's their fault for staying in the issue and not leaving.

Racism- Tell them that it's extremely disrespectful not just to you, but to other people the same race as them.

Homphobic- Tell them to mind their business. It isn't hurting their life in any way, so it's their fault for getting in the situation in the first place

*I hope this at least helps a little with whatever conflict you're in. Stay strong and take care :)*